不完美的完美

平阳 · 发表于 2008-11-6 21:00:56

happycity · 发表于 2008-11-5 15:23:51

<DIV><DIV> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=MingLiu color=purple size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: MingLiu">                </SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"> </SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=MingLiu color=purple size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: MingLiu">                                              </SPAN></FONT></DIV><DIV><FONT face=MingLiu color=purple size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: purple; FONT-FAMILY: MingLiu"></SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple">劉墉先生說道：我有一個朋友，單身半輩子，快五十歲。</SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"> </SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"><BR></SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=purple><SPAN style="COLOR: purple">突然結了婚，新娘跟他的年齡差不多，徐娘半老、風韻猶存。<SPAN lang=EN-US> </SPAN></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"><BR></SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=purple><SPAN style="COLOR: purple">只是知道的朋友都竊竊私語：「那女人以前是個演員，嫁了兩任丈夫，<SPAN lang=EN-US> </SPAN></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple">都離了婚，現在不紅了，由他撿了個剩貨。」 <SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"><BR></SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=purple><SPAN style="COLOR: purple">話不知道，是不是傳到了他耳裏。<SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN> </SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple">有一天，他跟我出去，一邊開車、一邊笑道：</SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"> </SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"><BR></SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=purple><SPAN style="COLOR: purple">「我這個人，年輕的時候就盼開賓士車，沒錢，買不起；<SPAN lang=EN-US> </SPAN></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"><BR></SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=purple><SPAN style="COLOR: purple">現在呀！還是買不起，買輛三手車。」 <SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple">他開的確實是輛老賓士，我左右看看說：「三手？看來很好哇！馬力也足！」 </SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple">「是啊呀！」他大笑了起來。「舊車有什麼不好？就好像我太太，</SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"> </SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"><BR></SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=purple><SPAN style="COLOR: purple">前面嫁個四川人，又嫁個上海人，還在演藝圈二十多年，大大小小的場面見多了。<SPAN lang=EN-US> </SPAN></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"><BR></SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=purple><SPAN style="COLOR: purple">現在老了、收了心，沒了以前的嬌氣、浮華氣，<SPAN lang=EN-US> </SPAN></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple">卻做得一手四川菜、上海菜，又懂得布置家。<SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"><BR></SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=purple><SPAN style="COLOR: purple">講句實在話，<STRONG><B><FONT face=細明體><SPAN> 她真正最完美的時候，反而都被我遇上了</SPAN></FONT></B></STRONG>。」 <SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple">「你說得真有理！」，</SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple">我說：「別人不說，我真看不出來，她竟然是當年的那位豔星。」 </SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple">「是啊！」他拍著方向盤：「其實想想我自己，我又完美嗎？</SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"> </SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"><BR></SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=purple><SPAN style="COLOR: purple">我還不是千瘡百孔，有過許多往事、許多荒唐，正因為我們都走過了這些，<SPAN lang=EN-US> </SPAN></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"><BR></SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=purple><SPAN style="COLOR: purple">所以兩個人都成熟，都知道讓、都知道忍，<STRONG><B><FONT face=細明體> <SPAN>這不完美，正是一種完美啊！</SPAN></FONT></B></STRONG>」<SPAN lang=EN-US></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><STRONG><B><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple">不完美，正是一種完美！</SPAN></FONT></B></STRONG><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"> </SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple">我們老了、都鏽了、都千瘡百孔了。</SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN> </FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple">總隔一陣子就去看醫生，來修補我們殘破的身軀，</SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"> </SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple"><BR></SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=purple><SPAN style="COLOR: purple">我們又何必要求自己擁有的人、事物，都完美無暇，沒有缺點呢？</SPAN></FONT> <FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=purple size=3><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: purple">看得慣殘破，也是<STRONG><B><FONT face=細明體><SPAN>歷練</SPAN></FONT></B></STRONG>、是<STRONG><B><FONT face=細明體><SPAN>豁達</SPAN></FONT></B></STRONG> 、是<STRONG><B><FONT face=細明體><SPAN>成熟</SPAN></FONT></B></STRONG>，是一種人生的境界啊！</SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT> </DIV></DIV><DIV><DIV><FONT face=細明體 color=teal size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: teal">                                      </SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=teal size=2><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: teal">摘錄獻給每個正在打拚的人！</SPAN></FONT><FONT face=細明體 color=black size=2><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black"></SPAN></FONT></DIV></DIV>